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feminism

Tis the Cozy Games Season

When the leaves start changing, I wrap myself in the warm embrace of a cozy game
13 Oct 2026 8 min read
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flytrap fridays

Death Becomes Her

The lesbian ultraviolence of "Camp Miasma" pulls at the threads of queer desire.
09 Oct 2026 6 min read
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ATF

Ask the Flytrap: I Got Sick and My Friends Ghosted Me

I want to meet new people, but how can I know whether they're trustworthy?
07 Oct 2026 6 min read
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sex work

Loose Women Deserve Their Flowers

When a woman has too much desirability, too much beauty, too much pleasure in being seen—she is too much woman.
06 Oct 2026 7 min read
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flytrap fridays

Worst Vacation Ever

Underneath every quaint small town, there's class war. It's just a little more literal in some.
02 Oct 2026 11 min read
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ATF

Ask the Flytrap: Feeling Catty

Must I suffer my friends' horrible nicknames for my cats in silence?
30 Sep 2026 4 min read
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fashion

The 'MAGA Makeover' is Over, and Its Replacement is (Even More) Terrifying

Fascists are using fashion to normalize radical perspectives and groups into normie society.
29 Sep 2026 14 min read
The WNBA Was Supposed to Give Queer Players a League of Their Own
books

The WNBA Was Supposed to Give Queer Players a League of Their Own

In this excerpt from ‘The W: A History of the WNBA,’ Tamryn Spruill explores how she came to love a league shaped by athletes who refused to separate politics from sports.
25 Sep 2026 8 min read
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ATF

Ask The Flytrap: How Do I Emotionally Escape My Hoarder Parents?

I moved time zones away, but I can't find emotional distance.
23 Sep 2026 4 min read
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books

Striking Out the Stigma of Self-Publishing

From the Brontes to 'communist gay wish fulfillment,' writers taking control of their own work is having a(nother) moment. And we like it that way.
22 Sep 2026 16 min read
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Dirty Minds

The evolution—and queering—of sex-advice columns.
18 Sep 2026 7 min read
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ATF

Ask The Flytrap: Should I Give My MAGA Grandma One More Chance Before She Dies?

She said something horrible to my spouse.
16 Sep 2026 6 min read
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music

A Los Abandoned Gig Made Me Realize Being Old Is Cool As Fuck

Aging is a truly disorienting experience, but standing in a dark room surrounded by strangers and singing along to Los Abandoned somehow made the passage of time disappear.
15 Sep 2026 6 min read
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Meet a Founder

Meet a Founder: Nicole Froio

I see cultural criticism as a way of saving our brains from the stasis the overlords obviously crave for us.
11 Sep 2026 5 min read
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ATF

Ask The Flytrap: Should We Get Married for the Bureaucrats?

Getting married would save money and logistics, but I feel a little cold doing it for technical reasons.
09 Sep 2026 4 min read
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Brazil

Come to Brazil (with a "Z")!

How imperialism turned Brazilian culture into a commodity.
08 Sep 2026 9 min read
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No Innocent Dance

The casual imperialism of the American tourist.
04 Sep 2026 6 min read
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ATF

Ask The Flytrap: Do I Need New Friends?

I need real support from my people, not heart-emoji reactions.
02 Sep 2026 5 min read
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disability

Sometimes You Need an Apocalypse to Survive

A summer of unrelenting pain revealed the disaster that is being disabled under late-stage capitalism.
01 Sep 2026 10 min read
On Maintenance and Momfluence
books

On Maintenance and Momfluence

In this excerpt from ‘Femmephilia: Love Letters to Trans Mermaids, Queer Mothers, and Marilyn Monroe,’ Sophie Lewis examines what maternal memoirs say about the complexities of motherhood.
28 Aug 2026 8 min read
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ATF

Ask The Flytrap: Am I Living in a Romance Novel or Do I Need a Reality Check?

After 20 years in the closet, I finally realized I'm a woman. Is my new flirtation with a fellow trans woman the real deal?
26 Aug 2026 3 min read
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television

Un-Loving ‘Love Island’

The messy discourse around Season 8 of Love Island USA exposes reality television’s deeply entrenched anti-Blackness.
25 Aug 2026 14 min read
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25 Years Ago, “Josie and the Pussycats” Predicted the Reigning Tyranny of Our Time

“Josie and the Pussycats” is a film that, in satirizing history, became a precursor to our surveillance future.
21 Aug 2026 7 min read
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ATF

Ask The Flytrap: I'm Here, I'm Queer, and I'm Trying to Live My Best Poly Life ... with Long Covid

The plague really fucked my shit up.
19 Aug 2026 9 min read
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AI

The Slop Machine is Taking Down the Pop Machine

Technofeudalism has stripped pop music of much of its potential for meaning.
18 Aug 2026 12 min read
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